Depression and pushing loved ones away: In order to help people someone with depression when they push you away, you need to hint them a distance assurance. Do not nag, you may add to the depressive thoughts.
Do not be a nuisance or intruder either, send someone to indirectly to help. If you can't find anyone, here are some tips of approach in helping someone with depression when they push you away...
Make sure that rejection and isolation are common symptoms of depression, so it isn't personal.
Be there for them mentally by reassuring them from time that you're always available when they need help.
Make them laugh in your confrontation. Don't just talk about the problem, you may add worry, which is a waste of time.
Talk about exciting memories then drift a bit to a solution of depressive feelings without touching the symptom.
Educate yourself. It's worth.
Discourage idleness sternly but do not criticize the past. Idleness trigger anxiety and bad feelings about one's performance.
If the person prefers someone else rather than you, accept and leave. But if the person just needs to be alone, use the above strategy in winning his or her taste of companionship.
If you're in a marriage relationship, make sure you care about yourself; appearance, approach and emotion.
This 3, when carved and spiced positively, they increase your value even for a depressive mind.
You cannot change the depressive mind but once you win the heart by giving it positive and exciting perception, the change would set in.
No matter the chance you have to help someone with depression when they push you away, use it the best way by making your relationship more exciting to him or her, even when self-denial is necessary.