If you plant honesty, you will surely reap trust. But how do you represent honesty? Through transparency, mutual involvement and respect. This are the three tools you can use to build trust back in a relationship after lying.
Show transparency without season. This requires heart to heart conversation between two partners. Speak about all that has happened to you, confessing, when you need to. Talk of the real thing that seems to be a challenge in your relationship. Make every effort to maintain positive stand in the end.
How to build new trust through transparency...
Before you decide, tell your partner.
Before you implement, let him/her know.
This is very important, for even when the other disagreed, a trust is maintained knowing that at the end nothing is hidden--this is the meaning of transparency in a relationship and builds trust more faster.
Involvement. Never go your way to do everything alone. A first step to losing sanity in a relationship (especially in a family) is lack of mutual involvement of each and every member during budgets, family tasks and other factors.
By doing things alone and in your own way, you can make a huge mistake, which may ruin trust, build insecurities, then your relationship will automatically become uninteresting.
Involve a partner who knows you and your movements in solving both physical and emotional problems...a first step to building back trust.
Respect. Love without respect is useless. Respect your partner if you want build trust back in your relationship. A genuine respect will make you honest in every part of living, therefore building a long lasting trust. A hypocritic respect is so obvious, which do more harm than not doing it at all. Beware and be honest!
Do not hesitate to share your disappointments instead of trying to revenge. Do not destroy your relationship using your hands. Do not pretend. Create a positive mind and be true to yourself. A shortcut to build trust in a relationship without struggling with emotions.
